Dating an older man…
In my mind, this means sugar daddy. Otherwise, you’re just dating an old dude. Euw. ALL men are looking to have “fun” with some hot, young arm candy. SOME men deserve it. A deserving man, aka Sugar Daddy, is a man who is well established and who wants a mutually beneficial relationship. This is a man who will take you out and show you off. Fancy dinners, drinks at swanky clubs, theater, travel, shopping, etc. He is also the man who is willing, even eager, to “help” you with your life. Be a mentor, pay your bills, give you an allowance. Yay!!
What does he want in return? Well, your nubile young body for starters. That may be it. But he most likely will also want at least the pretense of affection. Look up to him. Admire him. Dote on him.
Since he’s probably married, he’s looking to you for the attention that he no longer gets from his wife. If he’s single, then he is the workaholic type who has no time or desire for a traditional relationship, but still wants female companionship. Basically, you are an ego boost, so start strokin’!
How do you find this man? Easy. There are a ton of sugar daddy websites. Google it up darlin’. Find a site that is free for women aka Sugar Babies. Find one (or more) and create a profile. It’s just like dating but better! Write up a nice profile that will tell the guy a bit about you as a person. Be sure to state clearly, but sweetly, what you are looking for and what you are offering…or NOT offering. To be clear, these sites are much like Tinder. The “hook-up” is implied. If you are not willing to have sex with your sugar daddy, you probably won’t have much luck.
Once you’ve set up your profile, work the site. Think of it as a cross between a dating site and a job search. Be yourself, to an extent. You still have to be happy after all. But also try to cater your replies and behavior to the desires of the potential SD. If you make first contact, keep it simple. Write something like, “Hi there! How are you? I read your profile and think we might be a good match.” Perhaps also add a little tidbit about yourself that you feel goes along with what he wrote. If you are not comfortable making the first move, that’s okay. He will see that you viewed his profile and if he’s interested, he will email you.
If you work this system well, you can really come out ahead. Lots of dates and whatever sex you want to have, along with gifts, clothes, shoes, jewelry, vacations, cash, rent, whathaveyou! And the more the merrier.
If you enjoy juggling, you can really score! Or, just get yourself one quality SD and juggle young, hot (free) guys on the side. Win win. Good luck!
For more information about how to set up a great profile, deal with emails and eventually meet these guys, please refer to my three part article on Online Dating. Those articles were meant for traditional dating sites like OkCupid or Match, but the info will transfer seamlessly to a Sugar Daddy site. 🙂